Having terrible issues with my 3 sons Angel 42 keeping my 3 grandchildren away from their grandfather & me grandma,
hates us (his parents)b.c his wife has issues with her family so he trieds to isolate us to make her happy (I can only assume but our LORD know what is really going on). Jose 36 his wife is homosexual and making him do things he should not, like having another woman in their bedroom, youngest son Gustavo 33 is with an atheist & liberal girl and he turn away from our LORD.
I need 911 prayers for all my 3 sons that we adore & can't believe was going on in their lives. We were not the perfect parents about were all about GOD first and family.
I need interceding prayer for my 3 beautiful Fernandez boys.
I understand that you are very anxious about the disrespectful and sinful behaviours of your sons and daughters-in-law, and I appreciate that you have enough self-awareness to admit that you and your husband weren't the "perfect" parents. So, I see that you have family problems and personality clashes that started when you were a mother to young children.
You should pay for a licensed family counselor to advise and listen to you, your husband, your eldest son, and his wife. If you can afford it, then this is what you can do to make relief for your guilt about not raising them well as kids. Maybe you can share the fee with your eldest son, or find a free licensed counselor in your church. It is not right to prevent grandchildren from visiting their grandparents. I will pray that the Holy Spirit will convict that son of yours to go to counselling with you and to let you see your grandchildren more than he is permitting
As for your other son, I wonder how you know about the second woman in their bedroom?! I hope it is not from gossip but from you having seen it yourself. If what you have described here is true, and not from a wicked desire to control your sons and daughters-in-laws, then it will not be helpful to give you scriptures to quote at that bi-sexual daughter-in-law because she might not believe in God
Why have you not spoken your concern to the youngest son who is with an atheist woman? When there is no clear and mutual communications between all the adults involved, it is a symptom that when they were young children the parents were the cause of problems. So, you also need group counselling with the youngest son only, but not with his wife or partner
You will need to learn to accept that they are all adults now and are accountable to God by themselves. Nevertheless, I will pray that the Holy Spirit will make them aware of how they are distressing you and also that they need to repent of their sins
hates us (his parents)b.c his wife has issues with her family so he trieds to isolate us to make her happy (I can only assume but our LORD know what is really going on). Jose 36 his wife is homosexual and making him do things he should not, like having another woman in their bedroom, youngest son Gustavo 33 is with an atheist & liberal girl and he turn away from our LORD.
I need 911 prayers for all my 3 sons that we adore & can't believe was going on in their lives. We were not the perfect parents about were all about GOD first and family.
I need interceding prayer for my 3 beautiful Fernandez boys.
God bless you all.
I understand that you are very anxious about the disrespectful and sinful behaviours of your sons and daughters-in-law, and I appreciate that you have enough self-awareness to admit that you and your husband weren't the "perfect" parents. So, I see that you have family problems and personality clashes that started when you were a mother to young children.
You should pay for a licensed family counselor to advise and listen to you, your husband, your eldest son, and his wife. If you can afford it, then this is what you can do to make relief for your guilt about not raising them well as kids. Maybe you can share the fee with your eldest son, or find a free licensed counselor in your church. It is not right to prevent grandchildren from visiting their grandparents. I will pray that the Holy Spirit will convict that son of yours to go to counselling with you and to let you see your grandchildren more than he is permitting
As for your other son, I wonder how you know about the second woman in their bedroom?! I hope it is not from gossip but from you having seen it yourself. If what you have described here is true, and not from a wicked desire to control your sons and daughters-in-laws, then it will not be helpful to give you scriptures to quote at that bi-sexual daughter-in-law because she might not believe in God
Why have you not spoken your concern to the youngest son who is with an atheist woman? When there is no clear and mutual communications between all the adults involved, it is a symptom that when they were young children the parents were the cause of problems. So, you also need group counselling with the youngest son only, but not with his wife or partner
You will need to learn to accept that they are all adults now and are accountable to God by themselves. Nevertheless, I will pray that the Holy Spirit will make them aware of how they are distressing you and also that they need to repent of their sins
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